High Conflict Personality What Is A High Conflict Personality?
Here are some reasons that women with a high conflict personality are so attracted to bad boys
1. They are confident.
Bad boys are attractive in the first place because they give up magnetic confidence. And they know how to dating a high conflict personality. They don't toss what we think - and that’s why we get bogged down.
2. Sex is hot
Sex with bad boys is usually hot because they are very confident that we wouldn't bend over them so easily if there wasn't a chemical bond aspect to make the whole thing.
3. They think we settled them.
The bad guys song and dance talk about their "damaged past" that makes us want to come closer and heal the deepest pain that has caused them to grow high in their struggle with love. This is not possible and is actually a codependent, maladaptive pattern. But often we still want to try, even though.They're unpredictable.
I've talked about the intermittent award rule because it has a very deep relationship with our behavior about relationships - and how it works to affect us. In fact, we'll do something if we're rewarded for a while and no clear pattern.
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Because bad guys do well in what they do, we often get sucked by lies, half-truths, and straightforward statements like "damn, I'm not dating anyone else - but why do you want to label it?
Finding an excuse to be nice to a bad boy makes a small challenge that we can be a woman that they can "change", and it looks like someone is going to feel confident that he or she can prove his or her love.
His games, the animals consider him a liar. Bad boy shows how good he can be with him. When we remove balance and try this way, we get distracted by the fact that he's actually acting like a stalling blow that really doesn't meet our needs. But he thinks he will, so the cycle of push and pull will continue Drama is addictive
Sometimes we relate to the personalities of the higher conflict as conflict is distracting. Conflict accounts for our time and energy so much that we're temporarily free from worrying about the future. Drama offers a temporary refuge from real life.
Instead of focusing on what we really want here and now, drama lets us set up play creative life - time delay: bad boys pretend this all because the high character of their struggle can be retracted and a small percentage can be changed, by using reinforcements (family, workplace, and/or courts) and good programs of change, as described in this article. The more serious pattern of conflict will be. Equally likely they have a personality disorder.
